Monday, August 29, 2011

summer vacation

Do you ever find it harder to pack for a short trip than a long one?

So here's my luggage pack for the upcoming vacation. Remember I wrote a post about this luggage around 3 months ago? Finally I'm going to use it! Also I imagine I will come back with tan skin. I hope I won't.

Saturday, August 27, 2011

I.m.a.b.i.g.g.i.r.l

Today I was told that I look like a small little girl. In today's situation I really hope to look older in appearance. Tips for making myself look older?

Anyway just popped in my blogging world again before heading to bed.
Letting the skin rest, wearing nothing on my face and going to crawl into my comforter to sleep.

Hope my pale face don't look scary.






oyasuminasai~


Friday, August 26, 2011

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

水曜日

Stepped into Sg again today as I'm going for two interviews tomorrow. Need to quickly brush up on my Japanese as I may be tested tomorrow for one of the interviews. Pray I do not get too anxious or nervous then.
頑張ります!(^o^)v~~~

Below is the link of book I mentioned in the previous post. The Chinese translation book's link was given by my church friend and also the English one I found from Google ebook.

Click them:-

The five love Language (C)

The five love Language (E)

A book for indiviuals and/or couples, is very easy to read, guides couples down a road of clear expressions of love...

Monday, August 15, 2011

Love Languages




I randomly come across a blog post writing about the Love Languages, which the blogger talked about a book, The Five Love Languages she have just read.

Some points that I've found from the book...

*Aside from verbal compliments, another way to communicate through “Words of Affirmation” is to offer encouragement. Here are some examples: reinforcing a difficult decision; calling attention to progress made on a current project; acknowledging a person’s unique perspective on an important topic. If a loved one listens for “Words of Affirmation,” offering encouragement will help him or her to overcome insecurities and develop greater confidence.

Quality conversation is very important in a healthy relationship. It involves sharing experiences, thoughts, feelings and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context. A good mate will not only listen, but offer advice and respond to assure their mate they are truly listening. Many mates don’t expect you to solve their problems. They need a sympathetic listener.

According to the book, once you've identified, with your partner, what love language fits you the most, then it becomes easier for each of you to express your love to each other in a way your partner understands.

The author alludes to each person in a relationship as having an "emotional love tank" and when that tank hits empty, that's when there is danger of the relationship ending. But by understanding and speaking your partners love language often, you can essentially keep that tank near full forever.*

I think this book is interesting. It quite similar to some points in the book I've just read weeks ago.



找不到 心里暖暖 的感觉

期待 快到的旅行

To another girl friend of mine,


let's ganbatte together.

Friday, August 12, 2011

这样说









爱情,能够给人温暖和力量。
愿意爱下去 认真地 分享 表达 沟通。
长期持续下去的关系的基础 是重要的。

信心的自我表露,应引起重视、认真加以对待。

现在 梦里 也是哭泣的。
我会 加油。

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

寻找





或许目前这是最好的选择
放下
才只有能專心去快樂
找到 安全感和信心...